Help Stop the Spread of RSV | Baby Etiquette


It seems like just yesterday. My sweet baby Ethan made his arrival just a tad over 3 weeks early. He was the size of an average newborn, but because of his prematurity I was more cautious with how and who he was passed around to. I had heard of the dangers of RSV, so I was prepared.

We, as loved ones, should be aware of etiquette when it comes to these tiny new arrivals as well.

RSV Infographic

One of the biggest threats to new babies is a very common virus called respiratory syncytial virus, or RSV. This virus is of special concern because it’s extremely common and spreads very easily. RSV can live on surfaces (e.g., doorknobs, countertops, toys, bedding) for several hours and is often spread through touching, hugging and kissing. Because of this, almost 100% of children contract RSV by their second birthday. In most older children, RSV runs its course with mild symptoms similar to the cold or flu, and many parents may not even know their child has the virus. But in very young babies—and especially preemies and those with certain lung and heart diseases—it can lead to a serious respiratory infection.

A few facts about RSV that all parents, caregivers and loved ones should know:
• Almost every baby will contract RSV by age 2, but only 1/3 of moms say they’ve heard of the virus.
• Serious RSV infection is the leading cause of infant hospitalization, responsible for more than 125,000 hospitalizations and up to 500 infant deaths each year.
• RSV occurs in epidemics each fall through spring. The CDC has defined “RSV season” as beginning in November and lasting through March for most parts of North America.
• There is no treatment for RSV, so it’s important for parents to take preventive steps to help protect their child (e.g., wash hands, toys, bedding frequently; avoid crowds and cigarette smoke).
• Certain babies are at an increased risk of developing serious RSV infection, so it’s important to speak with a pediatrician to determine if a baby may be at high risk for RSV, and discuss preventive measures.
• Symptoms of serious RSV infection include: persistent coughing or wheezing; rapid, difficult, or gasping breaths; blue color on the lips, mouth, or under the fingernails; high fever; extreme fatigue; and difficulty feeding. Parents should contact a medical professional immediately upon signs of these symptoms.

 Toddler Meeting Baby

As a guest, it is your responsibility to know how to act and prepare for a visit. It is important to remember that babies are susceptible to germs, so physical contact can be risky. Always wash your hands, ask before you touch a baby, and stay away if you have been sick recently. 

A few tips to remember when a loved one has a new baby:

  • Call before you visit. New parents need time to set up a routine and bond. By giving them time to do so before you visit, you are respecting the new family.
  • Postpone a visit if you feel that you may be getting sick, have recently been ill or exposed to illness.
  • Please make sure your clothes are clean and you haven’t smoked or been around smokers recently. Smoke can be very dangerous for underdeveloped lungs.
  • Remember that parents know best. If you feel they are being overprotective or overly cautious, just consider that only they know what’s best for the health of their new son or daughter.
  • Offer to do something to ease their responsibilities as they spend time as a family, such as laundry, cooking or dishes. Sleep-deprived moms and dads will appreciate your help! 

If you do schedule a visit with a new baby:

  • Wash your hands immediately when you come into the house, or sanitize during your visit – this is one of the best ways to prevent the spread of germs. Wash, wash, wash!
  • Leave toddlers at home, especially during the winter months. Young children, especially if they attend day care or preschool, often carry germs and viruses, like RSV, that are easily spread. 
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  1. Kecia says

    These tips are great to help prevent a baby from getting RSV. My brother had it when he was just under a year old, so this post hits close to home.

  2. Joni Lackey says

    This was so very informative….thanks for posting it!

  3. Jennifer says

    Thanks for the great info! I’m a nursing student so I know how important education is 🙂 Shining light on subjects like this is wonderful for your readers.

  4. Great article! More parents need to read this to know what to watch for. It is very scary but your information is helpful. Thanks for sharing.

  5. Jo-Ann Brightman says

    This is such a scary illness. One of my friend’s children almost died from it

  6. Crystal Epperson says

    Very helpful tips!

  7. Grace says

    This wasn’t a huge concern when I had my boys, but how scary. It’s great to get this information out.

  8. Donna Evans says

    What an informative article of RSV. It’s always sad when something happends to a baby.

  9. mike baker says

    Thanks for the info. I have a friend with a new born who has lung issues.

  10. I have only heard of RSV recently but I will keep it in mind when visiting friends with babies and I will also keep it in mind when I have children in a few years. Thanks for sharing!

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